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Caregiver Chronicles: The Luxury of Time

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fancyclock.jpgAfter a long and successful career in broadcast journalism in Houston, North Texas and Oklahoma, Judy Overton joined MD Anderson in 2008 as a senior communications specialist. Her husband, Tom, was treated at MD Anderson for renal cancer. He died in April 2007. Judy's occasional posts will cover aspects of the cancer experience from the caregiver's perspective.
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On our first visit to MD Anderson, Tom stayed busy signing what seemed like an endless number of consent forms. There was one for pharmacy, another for X-rays and still another to diagnose and treat, with no promise for success.

After those were done, we maneuvered our way through a number of doctor, scan and X-ray appointments. One of them was with a clinical specialist, where we learned that removing a kidney brings a good chance of survival.

Good news there.

We then saw Tom's oncologist, Eric Jonasch, M.D., a soft-spoken man, who described the possible course of action: Interleukin-2 (IL2). It's an immunotherapy, FDA approved and normally prescribed for melanoma patients. "Avastin," Jonasch added, "promises to be a viable drug for renal cell carcinoma. Unfortunately, it's not yet FDA approved for this type of cancer."

"A final strategy will be announced a week from today once all the results are analyzed." We then moved on to the litany of tests and scans.

At some point later in the afternoon, I left Tom so I could tend to some personal business.

This was a mistake.

Several hours later, I'm comfortably at home and Tom hasn't returned yet from MD Anderson. Even though we had cell phones, I wasn't able to reach him. He apparently was involved with a scan or test and wasn't able to communicate outside the hospital.

By the time I finally reached him, he was exceptionally frustrated. Tom said it would be well after 10:00 p.m. before he was through for the evening. He was expected back at MD Anderson the next day around 7:00 a.m. Since we live almost an hour away from the Texas Medical Center, I told him I would call long-time friends, Lisa and Alan, to see if he could stay overnight with them. They were glad to take him in.

Communication Continuum
As luck would have it, the results were going to be released when I was scheduled to be out of town on a consulting job, but Tom and I agreed we would be better off financially if I continued with the assignment.

So, his sister Joy and her husband accompanied him to hear the results. The appointment was scheduled for 11:00 a.m. As soon as I had a break in my schedule, I contacted Joy by cell phone. What in the world did people do before this technology? The tension and anticipation of the unknown was bad enough, but to not find out for hours must have been excruciating.

Joy shared the news, which wasn't exactly surprising, but still unsettling. Jonasch confirmed Tom had clear cell renal carcinoma. There apparently are 32,000 cases of renal cancer diagnosed per year in the United States. Eighty percent are clear cell carcinoma, stage IV and very aggressive. Joy jotted down in the journal, "D-Day Plan."

Currently, it's a lung metastases only, the doctor told them. So, Tom will receive a high dose of IL2 therapy, which will be administered by the melanoma group. The response rate is about 20%, Jonasch said. He added, "It's not a desperate situation. We have the luxury of time."

So what did that mean? How long did Tom really have?

Truthfully, the only time we seriously faced his possible demise was almost two winters later on the eve of his second back surgery, which was also the eve of his 53rd birthday.

Collapsing in each others' arms, we sobbed at the thought that Tom might not be physically present when our sons got married or when our grandchildren were born.

But we allowed this to happen for only a special, fleeting moment in time, only one short moment. No rest for the weary. We had a battle on our hands.

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Judy..Your journey really touched me because I am on that same path with my husband. He was diagnosed in June 2008 with RCC. He is also a patient of Dr. Jonasch and these past 2.5 years have been a nightmare. Right now he is on a targeted therapy Votrient and that has slowed the tumors in his lung but his only kidney failed and he has been on hemodialysis for 5 months. He is very weak and fatigued all the time. We go back for scans in Jan. and each time we hold our breath. My husband is 63 and has no quality of life anymore, he spends 24/7 in bed. As the sole caretaker it has taken its toll on me. I am trying to remain positive and strong but there are days that I do not want to get out of bed. Thank you for sharing your story. My heart goes out to everyone fighting this nasty disease as well as all the caregivers that have to live this daily.

whoah!!
this post said:
". . . Tom had clear cell renal carcinoma. There apparently are 32,000 cases of renal cancer diagnosed per year in the United States. Eighty percent are clear cell carcinoma, stage IV and very aggressive."

80% of rcc's are clear cell? Yes. 80% are stage IV and very aggressive? no way!

This error will needlessly frighten people newly diagnosed with renal cell.

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