By Brandie Sellers
All cancer sucks. However, I must admit (not-so-secretly) that I envy people who complete cancer treatment. In my case, breast cancer treatment has been constant since my diagnosis and recurrence in 2011. I often return to MD Anderson for CT scans, bone scans, chest ultrasounds and other tests that come along with having a later stage breast cancer diagnosis. The scans are never completely clear, and there's always something to watch. Living without absolutes really messes with my head.Living from cancer treatment follow-up exam to follow-up exam
I'm always hesitant to make plans for more than six months ahead of time. That's how often I have my follow-up scans. With so much uncertainty, it's easy for me to get into the pattern of living my life in short bursts. I wonder, "Why plan something for next year? What if I'm in cancer treatment again?"
By Stephanie Schmidt
I'll never forget the phone call I received in December 2012. I rushed to my parents' house, where my mom met me outside. I asked her, "Is it cancer?" She nodded her head as I hurried into the house and climbed into bed with my dad.
Dad had lost a lot of weight and felt sick for several weeks. A CT scan showed a malignancy that caused obstruction in his colon. He was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer with liver metastases.
Through tears, my parents, my brothers and I discussed that we were not going to give up, no matter what. Dad had too many things he wanted to do. He wanted to walk me down the aisle at my wedding. He wanted to meet his future grandkids. He wanted to grow old with my mom.
"We're going to war with cancer," he said.
I took on this attitude, too. My dad is my best friend. Accepting that I wouldn't have him in my life just wasn't an option for me.My dad's colon cancer treatment
By Erin Buck, Ph.D., and Irene Teo, Ph.D.
Cancer treatment and sexuality can be awkward to discuss, but opening the lines of communication can make a big difference for patients and their romantic partners.
Cancer treatment often leads to changes in appearance or bodily functioning. When these changes happen, patients may feel less positively about their bodies and their sexuality. The strain these changes put on romantic relationships and sexual health often goes unaddressed.
One way to cope with changes and strengthen your relationship as a couple is to communicate openly with one another. Here's advice for communicating about appearance or functional changes you or your partner may experience due to cancer and cancer treatment:
Start the conversation
The first step toward managing feelings about physical changes is to discuss them with one another. If there's something on your mind, it may be on your partner's mind too. In difficult times it can be comforting to share your experiences and be reassured. Remind each other that you are in this together.
By Mary Ginley
I had my idea of a near perfect life, until I was diagnosed with esophageal cancer.
My husband and I were living less than 10 minutes from the beach in Venice, Fla. I was on the beach every morning for yoga with friends and each evening for a sunset walk. I was substitute teaching at the local schools, doing volunteer work, participating in a book club, meeting friends for lunch, welcoming visitors who escaped the cold winters in the northeast, and heading to the Dallas area every few months to see the cutest grandchildren on the planet.
But then everything turned upside down.
An esophageal cancer diagnosis
I had been having trouble swallowing and assumed it was acid reflux. When the call came that I had a much bigger problem, I was stunned. It wasn't acid reflux, but rather esophageal cancer symptoms. Esophageal cancer? I had never heard of it.
By Harley Hudson
During my trips to MD Anderson for my chronic
lymphocytic leukemia (CLL) treatment, I noticed a group of people who
seldom receive accolades.
They are the volunteers in the short blue jackets who inhabit the halls and centers of the vast complex of MD Anderson.
How MD Anderson volunteers make a difference
They are the young and the not so young whose task is to make life for patients and families a little bit easier. They are the greeters at the door who make us feel welcome as we walk into the facilities. They are the people who man the Hospitality Centers and Information Centers and answer our questions.
They are the musicians who comfort our souls as they play their instruments in the entry halls and The Park on the second floor of the Main Building. They are floor host and patient advocate volunteers who come into patient rooms and offer comfort items.
They are the volunteers who push their carts through the waiting rooms offering hot coffee, hot chocolate and hot tea to patients and families.
By Tom Barber
In the four years since I completed lung cancer treatment, I've been dedicated to showing others that there is hope and the possibility of a wonderful life after lung cancer.
As the fourth of six immediate family members who have had lung cancer and the only one who has survived, I started this new life with the words "I can," my faith and the support of family and friends. I've had the privilege of working with MD Anderson's survivorship group and completing a couple of triathlons, a half-marathon and some other running events.
But in August, my cancer journey took an unexpected turn when I was diagnosed with melanoma.My melanoma diagnosis: A new chapter
During my lung cancer checkup, I asked the doctors to investigate a spot of concern to me on my upper torso. That spot turned out to be nothing.
But, once again, an incredibly skilled doctor at MD Anderson may have saved my life by finding a very small melanoma tumor on my shoulder. It was hardly remarkable. It was the size of a freckle.
I was devastated by the melanoma diagnosis, but I also was confident in my team and my ability to wage the war. Small seems to always be good where cancer is concerned. As a part of my melanoma treatment, I had a surgery to remove some skin and tissue, as well as the sentinel lymph node.
by Jacqueline Mason
If you've been in the dark about advances in cancer surgery, look no further than the emerging field of minimally invasive operations aided by fluorescence.
New technologies make it possible to highlight and eradicate more cancer cells in real time using fluorescent dyes and endoscopic instruments with filtered light. Patients hardly can tell the difference from traditional surgery, especially when they're spared future recurrence from otherwise hidden cancer cells.
While fluorescence isn't appropriate for every case, surgeons in Urology and Gynecologic Oncology are especially excited about two new uses.
New hope for bladder cancer patients
H. Barton Grossman, M.D., clinical professor in Urology, helped prove the effectiveness of fluorescence cystoscopy as principal investigator of a large, randomized study of bladder cancer patients in 2007.
By Jenny Montgomery
When Sara Souto Strom was growing up in Argentina, she wanted to be a mathematician. But she became a marine biologist instead. Then a cancer researcher.
That's what can happen when nothing much daunts you, not even pursuing a Ph.D. or two.
Now an associate professor in Epidemiology, she's followed a career path that looks a lot like an expedition.
Call of the wild
Strom recalls having a scientific, inquiring mind even as a child in Buenos Aires. Whether exploring the patterns of numbers or nature, Strom was drawn to discovery. When her twin sister was getting interested in boys, Strom was getting serious about zoology.
It wasn't merely the dispassionate interest of a scientist.
"I still like any animal that moves," she says. "Jellyfish, lizards, horses. Human beings, too. They all need help."
Eventually Strom set her sights on marine biology, and she spent seven years earning bachelor's, master's and doctorate degrees from the University of Buenos Aires.
Her research as a marine biologist led her to the discovery of a new species of one-celled protozoa -- and to her future husband. She was studying plankton on a research vessel off the coast of Antarctica when she met Gary Strom. He was the American-born first mate.
By Lindsay Lewis
Andrea Ferguson will never forget a defining moment in her education as a chaplain.
During a visit with a patient of a different religious background than her own, Ferguson sensed she might not be the right chaplain to meet the patient's spiritual needs. As she prepared to leave, she was asked to stay -- the patient simply needed someone to be there.
"I'll always remember that moment, because it shows what being a chaplain is all about," Ferguson says. "We're here to meet our patients where they are and journey with them."
MD Anderson chaplains are graduate-educated members of our interdisciplinary care teams who provide spiritual care to patients, families and staff of all faith traditions.
"We're here to contribute to the holistic care of patients and caregivers," says Gale Kennebrew, D.Min., director of Chaplaincy and Pastoral Education. "And we respect the beliefs of all people who come into our care."
Different from most clergy
Chaplain David Stouter admits the role of a chaplain in a health care setting sometimes is misunderstood.
"We often have to explain how our job differs from other clergy, especially since many hospitals work only with volunteer ministers from the local community to serve their patient population," he says.
By Ben Sanders
For me, the side effects from my prostate cancer and melanoma have lasted longer than the cancer cells did. I endured prostate cancer treatment in 2002, and metastatic melanoma treatment five years later.
But the side effects have had their benefits: I'm now 75 years old, and it turns out that my experience with cancer's side effects has helped me age better.Coping with cancer treatment side effects
After dealing with prostate cancer, I can no longer take emptying my bladder for granted. I sometimes have accidents, which are no fun at all. So now, I take my time and pay attention.
The lymphedema, or build up of protein-rich fluid, that followed my metastatic melanoma surgery means I can no longer take vigorous use of my arms for granted. That is, unless I want some swelling and inflammation. So, each morning I put on a compression sleeve and watch the manly deeds of might. The swelling reduces as the pressure from the compression sleeve prevents the fluid from collecting.Learning to slow down with age, thanks to cancer
In dealing with the challenges brought about by these side effects, I have found that I need to be consciously attentive and mindful. All the time. No excuses.
By Jennifer Martin
Ever since my husband Steve's melanoma diagnosis two years ago, I have poured my everything into building melanoma awareness. From research to fundraising to sharing our story, we've done it all.
But after all this time, I began to feel worn out. So, in September, when Steve's last scans for his melanoma treatment revealed that he showed no evidence of the disease (NED), we decided our family should celebrate by forgetting about melanoma. Well, at least trying to forget about melanoma.
Taking a step back from melanoma
I stepped back, but not completely away, from melanoma. I'm not sure when I last posted on Facebook about tanning legislation. I can't tell you about the latest research.
Instead, we lived life. We had a new house built. We spent more time with family and friends. Steve and I took several weekend getaways to reconnect as husband and wife. That connection is so important, and it's so easy when dealing with a cancer diagnoses for the relationship to turn into patient and caregiver.
I still read about our melahomies, our friends going through melanoma treatment. But for the most part, I was absent from it all. I felt a little guilty, but I just wanted to forget it all.
Melanoma follow-up appointments: Returning to reality
But now, we're back again. The months passed, and it was time for Steve's three-month check-up. The three-month check-up sounds so routine, so uneventful, so simple. But for Steve and our family, it was anything but.
By Karen Basen-Engquist, Ph.D.
It's that time of year ... when we resolve to lose weight, exercise more and eat more healthfully.
Changes like these can reduce our chances of developing cancer and improve our overall health and quality of life. But our experience and studies show that New Year's resolutions often fall by the wayside a few weeks into the year. We know what we need to do, and have good intentions, but most of us are not able to turn resolutions into reality.
If you're serious about making changes, consider the following tips.