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September 2007 Archives

Chaplains' Corner - Christiana Liem

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What motivated you to enter Chaplaincy as a career?
My father died two weeks after a prostate surgery. He was only 64. I felt life was too short, but it is also a mystery. However, life is beautiful to me, whatever the circumstances may be. I treasured my deep cultural heritage from my father. Chaplaincy is the career I chose to enable me to walk with others what life may bring to them, either joys or sorrows or mysteries.

What's the most challenging part of your work?
The most challenging part of my work is to see a long suffering that some patients have to go through. However, they taught me how to endure the long suffering.

What's the most rewarding part of your work?
Listening to patients' life stories is a special gift for me. When my parents and grandparents were alive, I like to listen to their life stories. A life story is rich with cultural elements, life wisdoms, wit, and personality that make a unique human being.

What do you find to be the most helpful when visiting with a cancer patient?
The most helpful thing when visiting with a cancer patient is coming without any
agenda, but focusing on the patient's needs.

What spiritual or religious resource do you find most personally helpful?
I found out that reading the life stories of others is the most helpful resources. In addition, I also attend a monthly meditation and mysticism lectures that help me to accept life as a mystery.

What personal characteristics do you believe make an effective chaplain?
Although there are many qualities expected to be an effective chaplain, I would like to emphasize simplicity, self awareness, compassion, openness and accept individual as a unique creation of God.

Are there spiritual/religious topics you personally wrestle with?
I am still wrestling with "life is a mystery."

What would you like cancer patients and their families to know about M.D. Anderson?
I would like cancer patients and their families to know that M.D. Anderson treats every patient as a unique human being, body and spirit.

Psalm 23 - Recited by Abby

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Loving Hearts Caring Hands 2nd Annual Golf Tournament

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The Loving Hearts Caring Hands 2nd Annual Golf Tournament will be held at BlackHorse Golf Club on Monday, November 12, 2007. Registration and breakfast begins at 7:30 a.m. with lunch and awards immediately following the tournament. Proceeds will benefit The University of Texas M. D. Anderson Cancer Center Department of Chaplaincy and Pastoral Education.

Cancer diagnosis is a life-changing experience. It often prompts concerns about life and death issues, and evokes a variety of responses including fear, anxiety, anger, bitterness or depression. Religious beliefs and the chaplains in the Department of Chaplaincy and Pastoral Education can be a great source of strength to help cancer patients and their families get through this critical time in their lives. The interfaith Chaplaincy program has been a vital part of supporting these patients for over thirty years and the ever-present loving hearts and caring hands of the chaplains are a major reason that M. D. Anderson is a place of hope.

We invite you to join us for the event. The entry fee is tax-deductible. Team prizes will be awarded for 1st- 3rd place, and individual prizes will be awarded for longest drive, closest to the pin, and a few extra surprises.

For more information, or to enter the 2nd Annual Loving Hearts Caring Hands Golf Tournament, please call The Chaplaincy Fund at (713) 862-8482. You may fax the entry form to: (281) 897-0467, mail to: P.O. Box 691284, Houston, TX 77269-1284, or you can register online at www.chaplaincyfund.org.

Chaplain Profile: Maria Kennedy

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Maria Kennedy is an ordained United Methodist clergywoman and board certified chaplain with specialized training in pastoral counseling, and an extensive background in interfaith spirituality/interfaith spiritual guidance (with an emphasis on Buddhism - and the Tibetan/Vajrayana tradition - in particular). Her current primary assignment is to the Main Campus Clark Clinic outpatient area; however, she also serves and collaborates with both Integrative Medicine/Place of...wellness and Rehab Services/Rehabilitation Medicine on a variety of patient/family programs and groups.

What motivated you to enter Chaplaincy as a career?
An experience I had while in college of having the opportunity to "journey with" a professor/mentor and his spouse during the spouse's relatively brief - but quite personally devastating - experience with cancer.

What's the most challenging part of your work?
Coping with the institutional complexities of being a part of such a large organization...and with the impact of those complexities on the lives of the patients, families, and staff to whom I minister.

What's the most rewarding part of your work?
The way that it serves as a constant reminder of the rare and precious - as well as quite fragile - nature of human life.

What do you find to be the most helpful when visiting with a cancer patient?
To remember our shared, common humanness: that - however different our journeys may appear on the surface - we share in the hope and aspiration to be happy, to be loved...and to be free from suffering.

What spiritual or religious resource do you find most personally helpful?
Prayer and meditation. I also find deep spiritual connection and expression through the wonders of nature and the beauty of music, as well.

What personal characteristics do you believe make an effective chaplain?
Though there are any number of possible answers to this, I believe that the most important attributes would be an open, compassionate heart, a sense of personal integrity, a genuine willingness to "walk in the shoes" of others, and a playful spirit.

Are there spiritual/religious topics you personally wrestle with?
Making sense of the enormity of suffering that I see in the world.

What would you like cancer patients and their families to know about M. D. Anderson?
Many folks come here seeking "the" answer - the cure for their cancer - that they haven't succeeded in finding anywhere else. For those folks in particular - but also for everyone, more generally - I would like to convey the sense that there is hope here...even though it may not be the hope, the answer, or the cure you seek, there is hope - as well as a community of support...of care...and of understanding.

Spiritual Pathways: Interfaith Blog Roundup

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The interfaith blog roundup spotlights uplifting and thought-provoking posts from a variety of religious bloggers.

Rickety Contrivances of Doing Good
Luciano Pavarotti, you have left us all a dazzling legacy. Your memory will not fade as long as anyone listens to your music, and we will be listening to your music as long as we have ears. And because you were fortunate and happy, you have taught us that it is not necessary to suffer to produce great art, that art can also bloom from love and joy.

Moving Mountains
At a distance I've been witness to such courage, and faith in action. Qualities I'd wish to emulate, ones we would all no doubt wish to emulate. And if any should doubt in the merit of sustained practice that doubt can be dissolved in the light of these past months. Let us bow in gratitude to the highest Truth.

CancerDiva
Patient Terry Hayes discusses the flowers in her room in this video update.

Care of the Soul
Art is but one form of spiritual expression. Art, such as painting, sculpture, and poetry, are a way to express one's soul. Artists often state that they "created" whatever because "it was in them and they needed to get it out". To express the essence of what was in their soul. One of the artists stated that we find a need to organize things to make sense of them, but just because you find a system that works for you, doesn't mean that you can/should impose on the world as the only way that works .I guess this can apply to the variety of artforms. What appeals to one may not appeal to another, hence the statement "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

A Christian Perspective
Folks, if you are suffering from depression, I have good news for you: Jesus Christ is the answer. He has promised that He would not leave you comforftless, that He will comfort you. He has promised that he will sustain you in your trials and will make a way out of every situation you find yourself in, no matter how dark. He has provided mankind with a remedy for depression that brings a peace which surpasses all understanding.

Exploring Hinduism
Readers not-so-familiar with Hinduism might be wondering - how come almost every other week Hindus have a celebration !! There was Rakshabandhan, and then Janmashtami and now Ganesh Chaturthi (which will be celebrated this Saturday --September 15, 2007). Oh well, we must tell you, there is lots more to come in the near future, in fact the Fall-festival season is only just beginning !! and really speaking almost every day is auspicious in some way or other for the Hindu..

The Episcopal Chaplain at the Bedside
Some 26 years ago, in my first Clinical Pastoral Education residency, one of my periodic responsibilities was orientation of new nurses to working with chaplains. It was usually a straightforward process - some description of the work, of policies and practices, and how to access us, followed by a few questions, and then a pleasant farewell until we met on the floors.

Spirited Chat
Need some extra inspiration during what would have been your lunch hour? Or do you simply want to learn more about Ramadan? Check out Muslim American Society Youth's daily episode of "In the Shade of Ramadan - Season 2." Tune in daily as different speakers share their reflections during the holy month.

Gentle Whisper
It has been quite the year. My husband has been gone the entire time, either preparing for mobilization, or actually deployed to Afghanistan with the US Army Reserves. Meanwhile, I completed the first six weeks of the Chaplain Basic Officer Leadership Course at Fort Jackson and I'm starting my third semester of seminary. I think this might have been a tad bit easier if my husband were home. Maybe that's why I said the last part of the oath…“So help me God."

The Muslim Voice
It's amazing to me that the water sinks right before the waves come crashing, or that the fish swim so close to my feet in the shallow water, and the seagulls are able to swoop down with razor precision grabbing bread from my hands. Those moments of solitude, floating in the sea, helped me to reconnect with my Creator. Reflecting upon all that I saw, from the bubbles in the water to the sand on the shore gave me a greater appreciation of His design.

Velveteen Rabbi
It is the day which will become the eve of Rosh Hashanah. My mother and I are cooking together, a rare occurrence; I had little interest in cooking until after I had left home, so we never did this when I was growing up. I shape loaves of challah, round like the cycle of the year. She slices zucchini, minces parsley and mint, and tells stories about my grandparents. When we gather family around the long table, set with the silver my mother chose in 1954, she lights candles and I make kiddush and together we all sing blessings over bread and over the first fruits of local apple trees.

Lance Armstrong on Surviving Cancer

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Grace Community Church Plans Service for Kids Living With Cancer

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The Wednesday Night Prayer Service at Grace Community Church (I-45 south) on September 19th will highlight Childrens Cancer Awareness Month now underway nationwide this month. The Service begins at 7:00pm and will feature specific prayers for children and their families in attendance who have been touched by cancer. Pastor Mike Hooper has issued an invitation to such families throughout the greater Houston area regardless of their or any church affiliation. For further details contact:

Pastor Mike Hooper Grace Community Church
14505 Gulf Freeway
Houston, TX 77034
(713) 363-2519
mikh@grace.tv

Book Review: It's Not About The Hair

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M.D. Anderson Chaplaincy - Spiritual Pathways - Book Cover - It's Not About the Hair

What happens when the professional caregiver is diagnosed with a life-threatening disease? This is precisely what happened to chaplain Debra Jarvis. Jarvis has written a realistic story of cancer survivorship that is refreshing, inspiring, and informative. Debra Jarvis is an ordained minister in the United Church of Christ. She has worked as a hospice spiritual counselor and currently serves as a general oncologist chaplain for the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance. She is a commentator for National Public radio and frequently speaks at conferences and workshops on caner, death and dying, medical staff care, and spirituality.

I found her book to be authentic and engaging. It is worthwhile reading for those who are survivors as well as caregivers. She reflects: "I learned much about cancer from being a patient, and probably the most astounding thing to discover was only a small part of the cancer experience is about medicine. Most of it is about feelings and faith, and losing and finding your identity, and discovering strength and flexibility you never knew you had. It's also about looking at life and staring death in the eye. It's about realizing the most valuable things in life are not things at all, but relationships." These words are reflected in the title of her book, to remind caregivers that cancer is a mixture of curse and blessing - and the blessings are experienced as gifts that are not often apparent to the naked eye of the observer.

The author uses her personal journal, shared from the moment she received the news of her demise, and expands upon her entries to paint a vivid picture of her life as a cancer patient, including excerpts describing her interactions with those around her. She is real about the personal and social dilemmas faced when having to ask for help. She wrestles with her faith, seeking assurance from the Almighty when she faces a deep sense of powerlessness. Her writing style includes an internal dialogue which she places on the pages in order to engage and the reader to enter the drama for the sake of learning and finding inspiration.

Having been employed as a chaplain in a large metropolitan hospital, I found many aspects of Jarvis's journey to be universal in the sense that I have heard those common themes associated with the cancer journey to be reflected in so many patient and caregiver stories. Jarvis has a way of giving those themes life and substance, depth, and color which portray the rich basic elemental aspects of human life, when disease threatens to annihilate one's existence. I recommend It's Not About The Hair to those who are seeking strength and encouragement when life's journey includes an encounter with cancer.

Reviewer: Rev. David Jenkins

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Goodbyes

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Over the past 17 years our Department of Chaplaincy and Pastoral Education was fortunate to have a group of 10-12 per diem chaplains who would rotate as part of our night and weekend on-call rotation. Many of them were graduates of our Clinical Pastoral Education Program. It is with gratitude and some sadness that we say good-bye to them as a group. They have been and will continue to be part of our chaplaincy family. They have taught us so much about religious and cultural diversity, about dedication, and about caring and compassionate ministry. Many patients and family members were blessed to experience their supportive ministry in times of crisis and loss, as well as their worship leadership on Sundays.

We honored our per diem chaplains with a good-bye dinner (that contained story telling, singing, thanksgiving, enjoying food and humor) and with a display outside of our chaplaincy offices. We are hoping that many of the per diem chaplains will continue to be connected to our department and institution, as part of our speakers' bureau and as rostered professionals.

Thank you to all of you and God bless you on your future journeys.

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